14 Luxury Sex Toys in 2023 for Splurge-Worthy Pleasure

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The hottest accessories are the ones you can masturbate with. Sure, your hand can do you justice for free, but with luxury sex toys, your sex life can reach orgasmic heights. When it comes to finding a long-lasting, high-quality toy that’ll last for years to come (or, rather, cum), it’s fair to say you get what you pay for — and right now, shelling out a few extra dollars for the best vibrators from luxe brands like Lelo and We-Vibe sounds pretty freakin’ good.

Whether you’re looking for a dual-stimulation toy that hits all of the right spots at the same time or a long-distance-friendly option to use with your partner, there’s a high-end pick out there to take your sexual play to the next level. Each one of these buzzy options lives up to its price tag through its own uniquely pleasurable, high-tech sex specs. What’s more, most of them have museum-worthy designs crafted to look great while getting you off.

You deserve a fancy treat, so gift yourself (or someone special) a climactic sex toy — we promise you’ll never regret the splurge. Below, take a look at the best luxury vibrators, suction toys, and dildos to elevate your sexual wellness routine.

Our Top Picks:

Best Overall: LELO Sona 2 Cruise

Why It’s Worth It: LELO’s luxe Sona 2 Cruise gets the top spot on our list for its air-pulsating stimulation that mimics the feel of oral sex. Its spout is shaped to hug and suck on your clitoris with 12 toe-curling intensity levels that are paired with strong sonic vibrations, but this rechargeable pick feels just as orgasmic on your nipples, too.

Editor Tip: This vibe uses the brand’s Cruise Control technology, which means the unique pulsations from Sona 2 don’t stop — and if you press the toy even harder on your clit or nipples, it senses and adds more power. Essentially, it’s a self-driving car for your orgasms.

Product Specs: Clitoral vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 12 vibration settings, waterproof, 2-hour battery life, USB rechargeable

Best Adaptable: MysteryVibe Crescendo 2

Why It’s Worth It: This flexible, adaptable vibrator from MysteryVibe houses six motors (yes, six) all along its base and tip, so no matter where you put it, you’re going to feel the rumbles. It’s designed to mimic human fingers, and its bendable body allows for clitoral, G-spot, and p-spot stimulation. This vibrator is also on the slimmer side, so it comes recommended by sex experts for people who deal with vaginismus.

Editor Tip: Though there are controls along the body of the toy, Crescendo 2 is app-controlled too for hands-free or partner play. You can cycle through 16 intensities to find the one that feels the best on your body.

Product Specs: G-spot vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 16 vibration settings, waterproof, app compatible, 2-hour battery life, USB rechargeable

Best for Beginners: Dame Pom

Why It’s Worth It: If you’re new to sex toys, we suggest grabbing a smaller, rumbly toy that can be used on multiple erogenous zones, like the Dame Pom. As its name suggests, this pebble-shaped vibrator fits in the palm of your hand and can be used just about anywhere for external stimulation. Its whisper-quiet motor features five different vibration speeds and five patterns to try and enjoy.

Editor Tip: Pom is made out of ultra-soft silicone, and the top half of the toy is totally flexible, so you can adapt it to your body. This is also a lower-intensity toy, making it approachable for everyone.

Product Specs: Clitoral vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 5 vibration settings, waterproof, 1-hour battery life, magnetic USB rechargeable

Best Dildo: Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

Why It’s Worth It: Don’t need all of the bells and whistles of a vibrator? You can still treat yourself to a lavish, non-vibrating toy like Njoy’s Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo. This double-ended dildo is made from stainless steel that easily glides in and out (just make sure to pair it with your favorite water-based lube).

Editor Tip: Its large, bulbous head acts as a G-spot stroker while its slimmer end can be used for anal penetration in lieu of a butt plug, but feel free to get creative with this pick.

Product Specs: Dildo, water- and oil-based lube compatible, waterproof

Best Bullet Vibrator: LELO Lyla 2

Why It’s Worth It: LELO knows a thing or two about luxury sex toys, so you know we had to include ’em more than once. This gilded bullet vibe is tiny for discreet pleasure and easy traveling. The remote control can reach almost 40 feet, so your partner can control its eight intensity settings from across the table or across the room. We dare you to get a little freaky with it.

Editor Tip: Most bullet vibes are only safe for external use, but this one comes with a handy carrying loop, so you can insert it for G-spot stimulation without worry. (It’s still great for your clit and other erogenous zones, though.)

Product Specs: Bullet vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 8 vibration settings, waterproof, 2-hour battery life, remote controlled, USB rechargeable

Best for Couples: We-Vibe Chorus

Why It’s Worth It: The beauty of We-Vibe’s Chorus is that it’s a wearable, insertable option for those with vulvas, so you can pair it with a penis-wielding partner, a strap-on, a dildo, you name it. If your partner is close by, or if you’re playing solo, you can use its accompanying wireless remote control to flip through three intensity and seven vibration modes with a simple squeeze.

Editor Tip: In an LDR? Long-distance partners can access infinite vibration patterns and settings through the Bluetooth-connectable We-Vibe app.

Product Specs: G-spot vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 10 vibration settings, waterproof, 1.5-hour battery life, USB rechargeable

Most Discreet: Crave Vesper 2

Why It’s Worth It: The Crave Vesper 2 is just as much a statement necklace as it is a clitoral vibrator. This best-selling 24-karat gold necklace turns into a rumbly (yet near-silent) vibe with a simple click of a button for playtime anywhere, any time. Keep clicking to flip through its four powerful vibration settings and two patterns. Best of all? Its predecessor, the original Vesper, was only splash-proof, but the Vesper 2 is totally waterproof.

Editor Tip: To make your next date night extra spicy, don’t tell your partner that the necklace is also a vibrator — show them. Chances are, it’ll turn them on too.

Product Specs: Bullet vibrator, water- and oil-based lube compatible, 6 vibration settings, waterproof, 40-minute battery life, nickel-free, USB rechargeable

Best Cock Ring: Lovense Diamo App-Controlled Vibrating Cock Ring

Lovense Diamo App-Controlled Vibrating Cock Ring

Why It’s Worth It: Here’s a c-ring that’ll please the wearer and their partner (if they’re generous enough to share). The sex tech gurus at Lovense engineered this customizable cock ring to sync to their app, where you can adjust the vibrations to music or choose from a variety of speeds and patterns. It slides in a few different ways, whether you want to stimulate the P-spot or use it to pleasure a partner.

Editor Tip: If the 12 vibration settings aren’t doing it for you, you can log onto the app and create up to 10 of your own combinations of rumbly speeds and patterns.

Product Specs: Cock ring, water-based lube compatible, 12 preset vibration settings, waterproof, 1-hour battery life, USB rechargeable

Best Wand Vibrator: Le Wand Massager

Why It’s Worth It: There are tons of wand vibrators to choose from, but Le Wand’s original Massager is by far one of our favorite picks. Self-care days are completely made with this wireless vibrator, which features a grand total of 20 rumbly vibration patterns and 10 intensities to mix and match.

Editor Tip: The Le Wand massager also comes in a corded version. And while you might think, “Why would I want a vibrator with a cord?” that means you’ll never have to worry about the battery dying mid-solo session. (It’s also $50 cheaper.) There’s also a petite version, which is more compact for traveling—or for anyone who doesn’t need an extra powerful toy.

Product Specs: Wand vibrator, water-based lube compatible, not waterproof, 30 vibration settings, 3-hour battery life, USB rechargeable

Best Rabbit Vibrator: Smile Makers The Artist

Why It’s Worth It: With Smile Makers’ The Artist, you’ll never have to choose between external or internal stimulation. This rabbit vibe is made from an ultra-smooth, body-safe silicone that glides smoothly on your skin as its dual motors massage your G-spot and clit at the same time with its nine orgasmic vibration settings.

Editor Tip: Rather than fumbling with buttons (which you can do on the control panel), this vibrator also has a squeeze sensor. So when you’re feeling the need for more, more, more, just give the base a gentle squeeze and it’ll ramp up the intensity.

Product Specs: Rabbit vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 9 vibration settings, waterproof, USB rechargeable

Best for Clitoral Stimulation: Womanizer Premium 2

Why It’s Worth It: Sheet-clenching clit stimulation is right this way, thanks to Womanizer’s Premium 2 pleasure air technology (which is honestly one of the best sex toys around, luxury or otherwise). Rather than vibrations, this toy utilizes air pulsations to mimic the feel of oral sex, and its ergonomic shape makes it easier to pair with a dildo or penis.

Editor Tip: If you ever want to give up control and trust the process, this vibrator has an “Autopilot” mode so you can just enjoy the fun, unpredictable ride.

Product Specs: Clitoral vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 14 vibration settings, waterproof, 4-hour battery life, USB rechargeable

Best for G-Spot Stimulation: Maude Spot

Why It’s Worth It: So, you want a dildo that’s more than just a dildo, but not as intense as a double-pronged rabbit vibrator. Enter Maude’s Spot, a sleek and slender G-spot vibrator that’ll hit all the right areas with its bulbous, curved tip and five simple vibration modes.

Editor Tip: This makes a great G-spot vibe for beginners. Its single-button interface is practically foolproof, and its sleek and un-intimidating body is easy to slide into your nightstand drawer.

Product Specs: G-spot vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 5 vibration settings, waterproof, 2-hour battery life, USB rechargeable

Best of Both Worlds: Je Joue Dua

Why It’s Worth It: Though it is tiny, the Je Joue Dua is absolutely mighty in pleasure power. This vibrator’s larger egg-shaped end slips right into your vagina to massage your G-spot with seven vibration patterns and five-speed intensities. But your clit isn’t left out, because its flexible vibrating tail sits right on top of it so you can have a powerful, blended orgasm.

Editor Tip: If you need another genius idea (if we do say so ourselves), this bendy egg vibrator makes an excellent kegel trainer. You’re welcome.

Product Specs: G-spot vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 35 vibration settings, waterproof, app compatible, 2.5-hour battery life, USB rechargeable

Most Versatile: Goop Double-Sided Wand Vibrator

Goop Double-Sided Wand Vibrator

Why It’s Worth It: No matter what your sexual preferences du jour are, the Goop Double-Sided Wand Vibrator will surely satisfy them. This sleek toy also features a jaw-dropping 64 vibrational settings to play with. Nicely, it also has an LED battery life display, so you know when you’re in risky territory.

Editor Tip: Like most wand vibrators, it has a large rumbly head, but what makes this one so special is its tapered end that acts as a handle and an insertable vibrating dildo.

Product Specs: Wand vibrator, water-based lube compatible, 64 vibration settings, waterproof, USB rechargeable


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